There is this stigmatic myth with hypnosis that it’s somehow the incredible mind power of the hypnotist who is controlling the client/subject and making them do what they are being told to do. It somehow looks like this:
The truth though, is that Hypnosis is actually more of a CONSTANT LOOP - where the Hypnotist says something which makes the client/subject respond in a certain way - which the Hypnotist feeds back into loop with new direction/suggestion and the client/subject responds - feeding the loop back again.
This continues on and on - like this:
The loop you notice is more than just a model we use in Hypnosis to explain the procedure.
In fact - what you may discover, right now, and be more aware of, is that this loop appears in all facets of human connection.
Whether it’s us petting a dog and the dog responding - our choice of words and someone else responding to what we said, or the way in which we talk to ourselves, we are participating in an active and dynamic loop.
In order for you to notice any shift at all in the loop - including the other person - you must change YOUR END of the loop!
Let me be as direct as possible.
YOU. CANNOT. DECIDE. FOR. SOMEONE. ELSE. TO. CHANGE.
They must make the decision on their own and come to terms with making the decision on their own.
By changing something on YOUR END, though, you WILL ultimately change their end too!
The problem a lot of the clients I see have is the illusion of “This is as good as it gets.”
This type of person will believe:
- “This is how it’s always been so this is as good as it’ll ever get.”
- “I always end up with the same type of people.”
- “Why does this always happen to me?”
- “I always expect it because it’s what I’m use to.”
What I’m about to say will probably make you upset if you are this type of person - however - with each of my clients it’s always been the same.
By believing in these self imposed lies, all you are doing is disempowering yourself to take responsibility and take action to CHANGE - SOMETHING!
Seriously - if you keep noticing the same result and want something different YOU have to be the one to make the change.
Plain and simple.
By changing YOUR end of the loop - you ultimately affect the other end of the loop.
If you don’t know what to change, change ANYTHING!
What does this mean?
Change anything, such as:
|The way you respond||Changing a habit||New Internal Dialog||Breathing Deep|
|The words you use||Changing a behavior||Asking for time off||Asking for time away|
|Responding with gratitude||Setting a Boundary||Wearing Different Clothes||Asking for kindness|
|Asking for help||Asking for love||Using a different cologne/perfume/body wash||Standing Up For Yourself|
By changing SOMETHING on your end of the loop, no matter the size - you WILL change something on the other end of the loop.
However…If you change NOTHING - then NOTHING is going to change.
The worst that could happen if you change nothing is you stay where you’re at.
The best that could happen if you change nothing is you stay where you’re at.
I’m not going to tell you that knowing this information has massively improved my life because now that you know about it, you’ll start to discover yourself being more aware of it on your own.
Give it a go, and start to see the changes happen!
Until Next Time..
The World Needs YOU Now,